Let’s Talk About Porn, Politics, and Opinion

 

 

 

 

I find it funny that I would be addressing this topic in an actual publication, but it seems as though people want to try to use my background as a Porn Actress against me when they get mad, jealous, or angry; as a tool to try to insult me and put me down when it comes to my politics and views even though I have addressed this openly and publicly numerous times before in social media and in publications!

 

The whole thing seems very childish to me, as most people who try to use my background against me are either jealous, the biggest hypocrites, or have skeletons in their closet as well! They are usually ones who post pictures of themselves in bikini’s or scantily clad, post pics of others (male and female) scantily clad, drunken idiots, or holier than thou folks! I have NEVER made the claim of being a perfect person! In fact, if you didn’t know this little tidbit…. There are no perfect people in this world today; everyone sins in one way or another at one point in time. If you are looking for the perfect person, you will have to wait for the second coming of Christ so you may be waiting a while!

Most people who resort to this method act as if I have intentions on running for a major political office (which I have stated numerous times I am not interested in) or as if I were already a Senator, Congresswoman, or POTUS in need of being  taken down! MYLANTA people! Just because I’m very vocal , opinionated, and have a sense of humor; does not mean I shouldn’t be able to have an opinion or speak my mind like everyone else because of a choice I made in my 20’s (and by the way, I am currently 40 years of age at this time)! People do grow up and people do change! It happens everyday believe it or not!

***A Brief Overview of My Adult Entertainment Life***

I entered the Adult Entertainment Industry as a Dancer aka Stripper when I was around 19 years of age. I was living on my own, paying my own way through college, and needed a job that would allow me to still attend school, study, and make money at the same time. Between the ages of 19 and 20 I was engaged, but it didn’t work out and I ended up being a single mother on my own. Stripping allowed me to work, continue my education, and be at home with my child all at the same time. Most people didn’t even know about my Stripping Career as I lived very “conservatively” outside of my work.

It was later at the age of 25 (1999) that I entered into the Adult Movie Industry. I had met my husband (who was also a Stripper at the time) and we had 6 children all together when our families were combined. We had friends already in that part of the industry, so it was very easy for us to get into at a higher billeted slot with major companies. At the time, it seemed to make more sense to make more money, work fewer hours, and spend more time with family at home. Again, same scenario! We were both still very conservative in our personal lives outside of work!

At that time we would commute to California for work, stay a few days, shoot our scenes, get paid, and come home. It was just a job to me, not who I was as a person. Work stayed separate from our private lives. We didn’t stay in the Porn World long. We didn’t care too much for that part of the industry, as most entertainers lived it as a lifestyle instead of it being just a job.  In fact the last time I actually was on set and shot a film was in 2001. What most people fail to realize is:  Anything afterward 2001 on my  profile are actually compilations of old scenes that were sold to other companies later on, so the release dates look more current as they are published by the release date of the new companies film!
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What many people don’t know is that not all of the Adult Industry Movie Companies are the same, and everyone’s experiences in that world (just like in the “regular world jobs” are different! Most of the horror stories you hear are stemming from the lower end producers, amateur porn companies, hit and run companies, and people calling themselves companies that are actually dealing in Prostitution and the Sex Slave Trade. The Major Companies that I worked for (such as Vivid, Elegant Angel, Evil Angel, and others) actually pretty well-regulated and require STD Testing every 28 to 30 days (which you pay for on your own through accredited companies such as AIM). If you do not have your up to date test you do not shoot your scene! (which makes it a lot safer than picking up a one-night-stand in a bar or other location). If you were high, drunk, or couldn’t do your job, you were sent home without pay! Most people think that all Strippers and Porn People do drugs!  I didn’t do drugs back then  and I still don’t to this very day!

There was no hanky panky on our sets it was all very professional, and we all did our jobs and went home. We as Adult Movie Actors and Actresses also have to show 2 forms of identification (social security card and drivers license)  and are required to fill out W-9’s and/or W-2’s (depending on if you are a Contract Entertainer working full-time for a company or an Independent Contractor) and even pay taxes (unlike many people in the “regular” world)! Taxes are taken directly out of our checks just like any other job! The Industry also requires all actors to wear condoms for safety as well. The official law  known as Measure B was passed in 2012, but most of the bigger companies were already practicing it. Are there screw-ups, bad things occurring, and horrible things happening in the Adult Entertainment Industry on the whole? YES! Is there drug and alcohol abuse and rape, YES! BUT…. The same thing occurs in the “real world”, even in our US Military and Government (that’s not an excuse either, it’s just fact)! I can only tell you about my personal experience in the Industry!

I have always been very open about my background as an Adult Entertainer, in fact I have written about it in other publications and my own Personal Facebook Page, Public Figure Page, and Entertainment Page  numerous times! I also have no problem talking about my career when people private message me their questions as well! Everything is public, online, and easily accessible these days, so it’s not like it’s been buried or lost like Lois Lerner’s emails or the story on Benghazi! I can even be found on IMDb (the Internet Movie Data Base) and many other Public Websites if you really feel like digging! It is not a big secret that I keep hidden nor talk about! I have always answered question openly and honestly when it comes to my background. I also speak out against the atrocities and dangers of the Adult Entertainment Industry as often as I can as well!

People can be rude and cruel when they use a background such as mine against me. They want to keep harping on my past, yet overlook what I have done to change things, and have become in the present day! Some people have even gone as far as to tell me I was going to hell because of my past! My response to them is usually something like: “You and your hypocritical judgmental behind will get there before I do, so please save me a seat!” Lol! (I have a humorous side when it comes to this topic at times)!

I often get asked would I do things differently if I could go back in time. My answer would be NO! I have had numerous jobs and careers in my life and the Adult Entertainment Industry was just one of them! My past is what has made me the person I am today, and I wouldn’t change that for the world!  What I do find very interesting is that; people will accept a Clergyman or a POTUS who has done and/or sold drugs, a Professional Athlete, Musician, Senator or Congressmen who has committed anywhere between domestic violence, fraud, and being a racist Klan Member and Dragon to murder; easier than they will accept someone who has an Adult Entertainment Career in their past!

For those people who want to continue to judge a person by their past without really knowing where they’ve been, who they are as a person, and where they are now in life; go right ahead! By all means keep being hypocritical and judgmental! Your opinions of me don’t pay my bills! In fact, I feel sorry for you! Not only are you only making yourselves look ignorant, you may be missing out on some of the best friends you ever could have had!

P.S.
Oh and by the way….
F.Y.I.:
If you’re going to come after me calling me a Hoe or any other various slang terms, please know that doesn’t phase me anymore! Also make sure you yourself don’t fit the definition as well! If memory serves me correctly, it is better to be a Plain Hoe rather than a Dumb Hoe! Lol!  People (both male and female” are Hoe’s everyday in this life, it’s to what degree of a Hoe you are! Lol! “Regular People” go to clubs and various other places to pick up others, buy drinks and gifts, play on dating sites, etc… in order to get one to sleep with another. In essence that is still being paid for sex if you really look at it! The only difference between an Adult Entertainer and a “Regular Person” is the Adult Entertainer is getting paid a lot more, whereas a lot of “Regular Folks” are receiving way less in return or pumping it out for free! “Don’t hate the player, hate the game”! #RealTalk Lol!

“The past is the past. Don’t let it kill you. Get over the bad things that happened. It’s gone. People change. Memories remain. But it’s time to move on.” ― Unknown

Copyright Black Conservative Independent 2014 – All Rights Reserved

About Kuuleme Stephens

I am a Mother/Actress/Model/Singer and Navy Veteran. I am also a Republican Precinct Committeewoman. I am a Conservative Independent who speaks her mind very openly!!! I have appeared on CBS radio with Dan Rea and KLZ The Source with Kenneth Clark, and I hope to do more radio interviews in the future so Black Conservatives can have their voices heard across the nation! I am also a writer Co-Author of The Last Civil Right so drop in and check us out: http://www.thelastcivilright.org

Posted on June 25, 2014, in Politics, Rumors and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. Reblogged this on The Last Civil Right and commented:

    This is my latest Blog on my Black Conservative Independent site! I thought it was time to discuss this topic all in one spot! Please feel free to ask question and make comments! This seems to be a real hot topic for me lately!

  2. To me, this just shows that you are a better person today. There was a plan for you and you are following through that plan.

  3. Hi Kuuleme! I have very much enjoyed reading your online posts, and have been sharing them on my facebook page as well. As a fire-and-brimstone, Pentecostal preacher (C.O.G.I.C.), I just wanted to share that I certainly agree with much of what you have written in this post concerning your background in porn, not that I think porn isn’t sin. But, you are certainly correct concerning so much hypocrisy. I can’t think of the Old Testament passage just now, but there is a passage where God through the prophet is condemning promiscuous women as worse than prostitutes, because the prostitutes were at least getting paid! Oh, I wish I could remember the passage to cite so you could use it as ammo! I’ll post it if I find it. It always amazes me the number of people who spend their entire lives in church, and yet, know so little of the Bible’s contents. They show up once a week for a Sunday sermon, and think they got something. They’ll call you a child of the devil for going to a club and dancing once in awhile, yet they themselves sit in front of their 60″ HD flat screens for hours every day of the year enjoying the exact same things that are in the clubs, as well as things much, much worse! They maximize other peoples sins, while minimizing their own. As you clearly stated, we’re all sinners. Kuuleme, I have no idea where you are spiritually, and that is your own personal business. And not every venue is appropriate for sharing that. However, for anyone interested who might be reading this, we all need to change our heart attitude toward all sin, and simply agree with God who is holy and hates all sin because it inexorably draws the sinner into death because God in His omnipresence, has brought into existence and sustains all things both visible and invisible by and through His infinite perfection (holiness). Anything that falls short of God’s own absolute perfection experiences decay and then death (Second Law of Thermodynamics). Just like cancerous cells in a body that must be removed, or they will corrupt the entire body – sinful imperfection must be removed from God (in Him we live and move, and have our being), or it will eventually corrupt all creation. God is not a vindictive, arbitrary kill-joy, His love demands this separation of the un-holy from the holy. Just like a mother’s wrath is poured out against anything, or anyone that would harm her child. A loving father will absolutely protect his children even from another child of his that maybe has gone crazy, for example. This separation from God is something like a dark void within the infinite presence of God where His presence is not, called the Lake of Fire (just like the chemical reaction we call ‘fire’, when the energy that holds a molecule together releases in the form of heat and light called combustion), God’s presence is no longer there to hold us together in corporeal existence. Therefore, immortal souls exist in an non-corporeal conscience state of ‘eternal combustion’, which is also why it is a place of utter darkness and eternal loneliness. (Hell is where un-repentant rejecters of God – those who want to be their own god, like Lucifer(Do as thou wilt) – wait for the final judgement. Sort of like being in a county jail while awaiting trial. Hell itself will eventually also be cast into the Lake of Fire). However, God does not want anyone to go there because He loves us. Therefore, infinite God the Father, whom no one has ever seen, nor can see (finite cannot possibly perceive infinity), not even angels who, like us are also finite(there is only one Infinite possible); has sent His revelation of Himself (God the Son, the Logos made flesh), the visible, finite revelation of the invisible, infinite God, to save mankind from this horrible fate. YHWH, Jehovah, Yaweh, Yeshua, Jesus, or whatever transliteration of His Name you prefer, descended from infinite, invisible God the Father, to be born without any sin, of a virgin called Mary, lived the absolute perfect life, and suffered, died, descended into the place of the dead(Hell), freed those soul’s who had put their trust in God’s promised Savior and were held captive in the section of Hell called the ‘Bossom of Abraham’, taking them to Heaven. Then, because Hell cannot hold Him, Christ rose early on the third day. Thus providing salvation for all who agree with God, and demonstrate that they love God and hate evil by turning away from that which they hate (sin), toward God whom they love (holy), forsaking all to follow Christ as Lord and King. The sinner becomes hidden in sinless Christ. His absolutely perfect and completed life, becomes our absolutely perfect and completed life. When we stand before Christ to be judged, we cannot be judged for any of our sins committed in our lives on earth, because Christ’s own perfect life on earth has become our own perfect life. And Christ’s suffering and death for sins also has become our own suffering and death for sins(our earthly life is hidden in Christ, and also buried with Christ in His death for our sins on the cross, thus we cannot die again, and we are deserving and worthy of Heaven by virtue of our own life of perfection and holiness that Christ Himself lived for us!) Thus, the Bible compares our relationship to Christ with marriage. When two become married, their individual debts and/or riches are merged. The legal liabilities, debts and responsibilities of the one, also become those of the other. If an absolutely impoverished woman who owes an astronomical debt she could never hope to pay, marries the wealthiest man in the universe (the very one to whom she owes the debt!), her debts become his debts, and his riches become her riches. His riches cancel her debts. So it is when you give yourself to Christ. Your own imperfect life is considered as having died on the cross, and Christ’s amazing perfect life is now considered the life that you lived! Amazing isn’t it? However, don’t leave Him, or cheat on Him! Adultery and abandonment are the only two Biblical justifications for divorce! If you abandon Christ to pursue other loves, you don’t get to take half with you! You leave everything behind! “Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.” 1 John 2:15-17. Salvation is free, but it is not like an earthly Christmas present that you can take with you if you leave Christ. Christ IS salvation. Salvation is only in Him! “And this is the record, that God hath given to us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He that hath the Son hath life; and he that hath not the Son of God hath not life.” 1 John 5:11-12.

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