BLack Conservative Independent: The White Sheep of the Black Community

Kuuleme T. Stephens .

I am writing this little note in explanation of my views as an Black Conservative Independent. I get a lot of grief over my views on politics, welfare, and in life in general. I’m especially writing this for my Liberal Democrat friends and family. With any luck, reading this will help you to understand me a little more. Please note that I am not a professional writer!!!

I have only been called a “Nigger” twice in my lifetime. Once was as a child on the playground at school. I don’t really count that one because the 7-year-old that called me that didn’t understand the meaning of the word at the time. The second time, I was in my mid twenties and was in a bar brawl with a Caucasian female who thought she was tough and was trying to anger me more because she was loosing. That did the trick and it was quite a show considering I let my anger get the best of me and started acting like one!

People usually find this to be odd, but I’ve experienced more racism and hatred from my own Black Community then I ever have with any other community. I have been called an Uncle Tom, a Race Trader, a Sell Out, a Fake, a Wanna-Be-White-Bitch, an Aunt Jemima, a House Nigger, and so much more. I have been told that I am confused, that I’m a racist toward my own kind, that I am brainwashed, that I’m stupid, that I talk white, and that I need to “embrace my blackness”. Considering that my skin is a beautiful mocha brown, I do believe my blackness has embraced me!

To tell you the truth, I have a hard time understanding why I would be called all of these thing, but this is some of the reasons (excuses) that I have come up with.

-I speak proper English and don’t speak Ebonics, so I’m not Black enough.

-I went to college and didn’t drop out of school so I’m not Black enough.

-I’m not a famous sports player or rapper and didn’t give up on life when I didn’t become one, so I’m not Black enough.

-I work a job and don’t live off of welfare so I’m not Black enough.

-I don’t do any drugs, so I’m not Black enough.

-I don’t deal drugs and I’m not in a gang, so I’m not Black enough.

-I don’t have 2 or more “babies daddies”, so I’m not Black enough.

-I don’t keep having children so I can stay on welfare, so I am not Black enough.

-I don’t expect someone else to pay my way, so I’m not Black enough.

-I use common sense in everything I do, so I am not Black enough.

-I aspire to be something more that average and work hard to accomplish my goals, so I’m not Black enough.

-I don’t believe everything I am told and do research to establish my opinions, so I am not Black enough.

-I have a 4 bedroom 3 bath house in a nice neighborhood, so I’m not Black enough.

-I’m married to a Caucasian man and have a mixed race child, so I am not Black enough.

-I don’t blame every failure that I have in life on racism and learn from my mistakes, so I am not Black enough.

-I don’t pick my friends based on their race I pick them because we get along and I like them, so I’m not Black enough.

-I didn’t and will never vote for Obama

And the biggest one of them all…………..

-I pulled my head out of my behind, left the Democrat Party, and became an Independent.

Like most Black Americans, I was born into the Democrat Party. I say “born into” because you are literally a Democrat from birth. When you register, you register Democrat, and when you vote you always vote Democrat no matter what. You’re not expected to have an opinion or have a stance on any issues, just vote democrat and you’ll be fine. My Grandmother, who is still a Democrat Party ground pounder, took me to register as soon as I turned 18. I had the gall to ask, “What are these other parties about?”. She glared and told me”don’t worry about them, they are not for you and the Blacks”. So, I did what I was told.

When I went off to college, I decided that I would finish out my Freshman year and then enter the United States Navy. I have to admit, my eyes started opening once I got away from my family and my hometown of Tucson, Arizona. I started paying attention to politics and what was going on in the world because all of this stuff was now affecting me as an individual. The party that I had been born into started sounding more and more foreign and oppressive to me.

When I say foreign and oppressive, I mean I could no longer follow the Democrat Party blindly because I had too many questions about their way of doing things and their beliefs. I didn’t agree on their stance on stem cell research, I didn’t agree with the stance on abortion, and I definitely didn’t agree with the stance on the military and the war. I am a gun owner and fight to preserve the rights to own them. I also found myself disagreeing with the stance that we tax payers should be funding more welfare programs.

I didn’t want to be a part of keeping people dependent on the government, and that is what the Democrat Party does. I definitely don’t believe that you have to be a Democrat because you are Black. The reason I say that the Democrat Party is oppressive is because it teaches persons (especially minorities) that they can’t do any better for themselves and that relying on the government and its social programs is a way of life. How is anyone suppose to achieve anything in life if they’re too busy expecting the government and their socialist programs to take care of them?

Just so I am clear, I do know that people are going to need help from time to time. That was the original idea of the social programs, but now, it’s not a time to time thing. People are just plain lazy and at times, really don’t know any better because of the way they were raised. It’s called the dumbing down of society. I can’t stand knowing that my hard-earned tax dollars are paying for people who don’t want to work, that are bouncing from rehab to rehab, that are receiving more benefits than me (as a working person and tax payer) and have a drug habit. I even know people who have faked disabilities in order to not have to work. Why punish those who are working and paying taxes so that the ones who want to live off of others can live an easier lifestyle? I also believe we should have an express lane for death row. Democrats believe in killing of innocent babies, yet will protest to save the life of a death row inmate. I think that is kind of backwards, don’t you? I see no point in paying for someone ( a criminal of the worst kind) to live (in some cases better than others who have committed no crimes) when they’ve been sentenced to death.

My common sense views didn’t click with the Democrat Theology anymore, I became the White Sheep!

So here I am today taking flack for the way I think, talk, act, vote, and for my lifestyle, but to tell you the truth; they can keep calling me names and criticizing me! I love who I am and those who want to call me names and criticize me are only making me stronger and work harder! If you don’t like my views on Obama, then tell me one thing he’s done for you or the American people besides gracing us with his presence. If you don’t like my views on the Democrat Party (Originally the party of the Ku Klux Klan), then give me some intelligent reasons why you think it’s better than every other party, other than getting free stuff (nothing in this world is free, someone somewhere down the line is paying), calling me names, or saying I’m confused.

I love being an independent thinker. I love not being dependent on anyone or anything! I love not having to sit and wait on food stamps to come in once a month. I love being able to speak proper English because then people don’t think I’m ignorant and uneducated! I love that I stayed in school because it gave me the tools that I needed to get by in this life! I love being drug free because it helps me to see things clearly and able to function without hindrance. I love not being a drug dealer or gang banger, the only place that leads a person is to prison or the grave. A little secret for the thuggin’ gang bangers and drug dealers that think they’re so cool…. (Wearing your pants down to your knees is not sexy! It was started as a signal in the prison system by homosexuals in order to signal that they were available! Now don’t you feel stupid! Lol!!! If your going to wear it, promote it, and fly that flag, at the very least Know Your History!)

And thus, I become a Proud White Sheep of the Black Community! I think I will start a Club! LOL!!!

Be an American, Support America: An Americans Soapbox View ft. Karen Harrison

Kuuleme T. Stephens

 

 

Hello Everyone!I have been quite silent for some time now and am just now deciding to speak up again. I have had to take a step back in order to get some much-needed rest, as the political world can be quite tiring and frustrating! Today I will be featuring a posting from my Facebook friend Karen Harrison. So many of the American people share in her views (in whole or in part), yet our Government still refuses to listen to the people they are paid (very well paid) to work for. When did we as the American people lose our voice? Since when are our elected officials deaf to the voices of the people they work for and since when, did we as a free society, refuse to think for ourselves and be spoon fed BS?

Here is what Karen had to say:

It is time for me to get up on my soapbox, for those of you who hate it when I do this, I say delete me from your friends list, you don’t like what I have to say, you don’t have to read it. Something has seriously been bothering me for a while now, and as the election grows closer, I am finding it harder and harder to remain silent. I have grown sick and tired of the class game. “The upper class is keeping the lower class down ” That isn’t the case at all. The lower class is keeping themselves down. They have been listening to the hype and the class warfare that they are allowing themselves to be spoon fed. “We can’t get ourselves out of our situation.” All the while they are being handed money behind our backs. Since when was that the American way? Since coming into office, we have seen the worst recession since the Depression. Millions lost their jobs, gas prices have gone through the roof causing the prices of everything else to go through the roof. We have the means of fixing this problem ourselves, but instead, we are forced to rely more and more on outside help from other countries that only see what’s in it for them. We are at the mercy of countries that would see our downfall before honestly helping others because it’s the right thing to do. We let others who do not speak for us, have a say in how we live our lives. This is our own fault. We have let others do the thinking for us and look where it has gotten us. A country where our freedoms are being eroded, our children are out of control, government is even worse. Our borders go unprotected. The Federal government says they have the power to rule individual states, yet the states on the borders of our country are told that the Federal Government will not defend their borders against illegal immigrants and drug cartels. If anything, the Federal Government has sent guns over the borders to these very same cartels. How many lives have been lost due to this? Of Federal Agents doing their jobs only to be killed by the same guns used to defend them? Class inequality. How many times have we heard that it’s “Not our fault?” I’m tired of hearing this. Yes, it is your fault. Not one put a gun to your head and made you quit school, no one put a gun to your head and made you get hooked on those drugs. No one promised you an $80,000 a year salary out of college. Before you run, you must crawl. No jobs out there? Funny, I see plenty of jobs being advertised for. Do they pay that $80,000 a year, no, but it does pay. Who promised you a huge house of your own when you are 24? No one. Who promised you a BMW, Mercedes, VW? No one. Who is responsible for your life? No one but the person that looks back at you every morning from the bathroom mirror. Your life is what you make of it. Don’t complain because you see what everyone else has. Be happy that you have what you have got. Don’t expect things to be handed to you on a silver platter. Life isn’t The Ritz Hotel. Just because you were born to privilege and had more than others, remember, your parents worked hard to give you what you have. It’s up to you to do something with it. Don’t rest on your laurels. Your parents worked for what they got, you are responsible for making it grow. Don’t look the other way when you see something wrong. “It doesn’t concern me, so it’s not my problem” Wrong, it’s all our problem. Don’t like what you see? Don’t complain and do nothing, if you choose to do nothing, then shut your mouth if you won’t work for the betterment, I don’t want to hear you bitch and moan.” THAT RIGHT IS EARNED BY PEOPLE WHO HAVE AT LEAST TRIED TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Be the change you want to see in the world. Stand behind our troops. They are the ones putting their lives on the line so that you can leave your jobs or your posh college dormitory to sit in the street and defecate on the American Flag. That in and of itself should be enough to have you stripped of your citizenship. Don’t like this country, you have two choices, work to change it for the better or there are 189 other countries in the world you can live. You aren’t being forced to stay here. These brave men and women, not to mention animals, have pledged to protect the very freedoms that WE take for granted. I fly my flag proudly, not only to proclaim my loyalty to this country, but to show that I stand behind those men and women and animals who go out night and day in hostile territory to make sure that I can have my freedom. In a perfect world, these people wouldn’t have to worry about roadside bombs, or children strapped with explosives. They wouldn’t have to worry about carrying 130lb backpacks filled with gear in 120 degree temps. They would be home, with their families. Mothers, fathers, husbands, wives, and children would not have to be on pins and needles worrying about if there is someone from the DOD standing at their door to tell them that their loved one paid the ultimate price while people with a GOD COMPLEX can invade the service meant o honor their sacrifice and make a mockery of it. (Yes WESTBORO PSYCHIATRIC WARD FOR THE INSANE THIS MEANS YOU) I have my opinion of these bafoons, but that is not what this rant is about, I will save that for another time. Politicians, this is the one that gets my goat….. We have elected these fools. I call them fools as a whole. They sit there, in the positions that WE have given them to represent us, yet they do as they please, knowing full well they can do as they please for about 3 years. Some are career, this is seriously wrong. I don’t vote for people whose only job has been as an elected official. Give me someone who has shoveled horse crap, flipped burgers, washed cars or delivered pizza. For they understand that to get anything you have to really work for it. Give me someone who has worked in the heat and frozen in the cold, not someone whose idea of “roughing it” is having to downgrade from 1st class. Politicians work for us, not the other way around. They want a raise, we are their bosses, don’t you think that WE should decide if they are doing a good enough job? If we were all allowed to give ourselves pay raises, we would all be out of a job. If people want a check from the government and they are not of retirement age, then they should be willing to put a little work out for it. That’s how Skyline Drive was created. “Shovel Ready? More like totally unprepared. American jobs…… now here’s something we ALL can do something about. We want more jobs in America, but we buy our goods from Mexico, China, Indonesia. Our pets are getting sick from eating dog food made in China because of the chemicals. Well, duhhhh, look what they did to their own CHILDREN just a few years ago, there was melamine in the milk they gave babies. And we trust them to feed our pets? No thanks. Oh, it’s cheaper to buy thinks from other countries. Have you seen their living conditions? I would rather spend a few more cents to know that what I buy is keeping Americans employed, than to save a few cents for a country to abuse its people. Come on now people, we read labels for poly unsaturated fat, Carbs, trans fats….how hard is it to locate “Made in the USA”? If we want a strong economy, it can’t be fixed by federal regulation, it gets fixed by WE THE PEOPLE”. When will we realize that WE are the ones that gave them their jobs, WE owe them nothing. If we are so dissatisfied with their job performance, then WE need to replace them. Not with anyone who can look good in a suit and talk nicely and look good on camera. This is NOT A POPULARITY CONTEST, which is exactly what the last election was all about. The current President had very little job experience. Many of us are business owners, let’s look at this from a business owners point of view. You are looking for someone to fill a positions with your company, are you going to hire someone who is all looks and no experience? No, you are going to go for the person who at least has experience in the field, someone who knows what to do and isn’t afraid of cracking a few eggs to get the job done. Why leave someone who isn’t doing the job you wanted in that position? Yes this is a country, not a business, but, anyone who has ever run a business knows that tough decisions must be made. You can’t hire more people if you don’t have the money coming in to pay them. You can’t keep running to a bank asking for a loan to pay people who don’t really DO ANYTHING. No bank would loan money unless it was on something that will make a reasonable return on the investment. The Post Office….. I have family who worked many many years in the Postal Service, so no, I’m not saying any of this to be mean. This department is losing billions of dollars a year. What business could possibly stay afloat doing this? Correct, none. While I am all for regulations on what can and can’t be sent through the mail. There must be standards. UPS and Fed Ex are already putting a hurting on them. They have announced closings and a cut back of hours, but does this really help the problem? They say that rates are going up, but that the delivery time on packages and mail will increase. Now, I don’t know anyone who is willing to pay more for less. They are wondering why they are losing business, look no further. I know that this isn’t the only problem that they have. There are people making WAY too much for doing WAY too little. Does this fix all their problems? No, but it’s a start, and a start is still better than standing there, looking at the problem and scratching my head, then shrugging and walking away figuring others will fix it. This has always been a country of DO-ERS, when did we become a country of DO-NOTHING-ERS? We have the most advanced medical treatments in the world, yet citizens can’t afford lifesaving meds because drug companies charge too much. We can fly halfway across the world and save one person from persecution in a foreign country, but we can’t look after our soldiers who come back from protecting our freedoms when they are having a hard time coping with the horrors they have seen. When did it become our job to police the world? Don’t you think that we need to take care of our own before we try to take on the world? When Hurricane Katrina hit and our oil refineries were knocked off-line, who came to our rescue with tankers of oil asking nothing in return? Was it Arabia? Was it Russia with their new-found oil reserves in Siberia? No, it was the country that we fought to win our freedom from, England. Who sent hundreds of rescue personnel with dogs to help find Americans and people of other nations when 9-11 happened? Was it the countries that the bombers came from? No, it was England, Germany, Switzerland and Japan. When those countries needed help, we were there to answer the call. These are our allies. To allow the President of our country to spit in the face of the leaders of our allies is a slap in all of our faces. We need a role model we and our children can look up to and be proud of. Not someone who can make empty promises and do as he pleases. It is time to make politicians accountable for their actions. Since when have we become a society willing to let our children be raised by the government? Since when has Social Services, Child Protective Services, etc had the right to tell us how to raise our children? Since when has disciplining a child been against the law? We were spanked when we did wrong, but now we can only smack the back of a hand and shake a finger saying “shame shame” No wonder kids are running wild. Since when should it be that parents are afraid of their kids? WE ARE THE PARENTS, we make the rules. If the kids don’t want to live by our rules in our house, there’s the door, make your own rules out there. When we did wrong, we were guaranteed a tail whoopin’ from our parents, or any other parent that happened to know who we were and who we belonged to. All these regulations have turned our kids into either bullies or sissies. Can’t ride a bike without a helmet, don’t drink from a garden hose, don’t play in that pile of dirt. Since when have we needed saving from ourselves? Has society become THAT stupid? What you say on FACEBOOK doesn’t happen in some imaginary land, once on Facebook always on Facebook. People don’t turn into these imaginary avatars and become unfeeling things you can say whatever you want to and it won’t hurt them. On the other hand, good grief, some people need to grow a thicker skin. if you don’t like what someone says, either tell them yourself or shut up, don’t go complaining to others.Shit, grow a backbone for Gods’ sake. (I’m Pagan so yes it is spelled G-O-D-S-’ I have more than one) If you don’t have to guts or balls to say it to their face, don’t say it at all. How many people have taken their lives because some selfish bitch didn’t like their hair or the way they dressed? This is America people, we all walk to the beat of a different drummer. We are all unique and entitled to our own freedoms. You don’t pay my bills, so don’t tell me how to dress, talk or act or who to be friends with. We don’t have to like or even get along with EVERYONE, but we do need to respect them. Gays and Lesbians….. this is a tough one for some to swallow, but again, don’t like what I have to say, then delete me, I don’t answer to you or anyone else, I pay my bills, put food on my table, I owe you nothing. Those who live this lifestyle do it because it makes them happy. This is what THEY want, stop trying to run lives you have no control over. If they want to live together, fine, who are we to judge them? No one made us GOD. Stop worrying about what others are doing. If it makes them happy, it’s not going to kill you. Good grief you sound like a bunch of chickens clucking and cackling. Don’t you think we have bigger things to worry about? Society will not end if Sally kisses Jane or Dick sleeps with Robert. Get your head out of your own ass. In short, the entire point of this rant is to tell people……… Don’t believe everything you hear or read. Find out for yourself. Don’t like the way things are, then change it. But above all, BE AN AMERICAN SUPPORT AMERICA. Ok, getting off my soapbox until I get fed up again.”

Karen had a point when she said “This is America people, we all walk to the beat of a different drummer.” America is a melting pot and we are not all the same. We have people of different sex’s, races, colors, religion, school of thought, etc….. and that is what makes our Country great! That is why people flock to our Country in droves (at any cost at times). They want Freedom, and that’s what our Country stands for over all, isn’t it???? Everyone wants to be treated fairly and not fear persecution to live freely however they choose to live and practice in their day-to-day lives. The last I checked we are still considered to be a Christian Nation. At times, that will mean we do not approve of another’s lifestyle or way of life, but as Christians, we are not to judge another (the last I checked a man with higher power has that job and we will all answer to him in the end). We have a legal system in place and rules to follow  to deal with things that break “man”s law, it may not be perfect, but it is more fair and effective than other countries. Now, does that mean that we have to accept Sharia Law or things that defy the Christian values that our Country is based on, NO. People have the right to practice and live as they choose, but  it is a personal choice if the way you choice to live is considered a crime under “mans” law. If it defined as a crime under “mans” law, they should be punished according to “mans” law until such a day comes and those laws are changed. The Bible tells us that we are still to abide by “mans” law. This is done under the assumption that mans law encompasses the law of God as well if we are a Christian Nation as we claim to be.

That is the good thing about our Country, we have the ability to change when change is needed. Take the Civil Rights Movement for example. Our legal system may have been slow with its process, but eventually the system recognized that there was a problem and that people’s Civil Rights were indeed getting violated (not only by “mans” law standards but by Christianity standards as well). People often misinterprets mans interpretation of the Bible for things that the Bible actually states, and that comes along side with just going off of what you are told and not looking and researching for yourself. With that, comes our legal systems ability to change its laws when such mistakes are found and then corrections are then made. It may not happen overnight, but eventually, it does happen. When making the decision to overturn laws such as this, the decisions are usually made by encompassing “mans” law and Christianity ideology combined. When the two are applied correctly, our system works effectively and great. When the two do not work hand in hand and “mans” interpretation of either side distorts the true ideology behind them, it can have a disastrous effect.

Now, many may not agree with what Karen in part or in whole, but the reason I chose to post it here is because she does has a point over-all. We are the AMERICAN people. There is no America with out its people or their voices. Our nation has become soft. We let others (the Government) tell us what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. We have also let the Entitlement Mentality take over and become lazy. Well, what happens when the Government is not working in our best interests??? What happens when the “parents”(the Government) go rogue on us and make unwise decisions??? Who do they answer too if not the American people???

If we as AMERICANS can not get it together and work together to get this Country straight, we will lose this Country. It’s time to set aside the smaller squabbles, put them aside for now (we can revisit them later), and save our Country.

Ask yourselves a few questions:

What use is it of fighting over the smaller arguments (like 5 year olds over a cookie on the playground) if our Country and all of it beauty and freedoms is being taken from us  while we battle each other over differences of opinions???

If we don’t have a Country, then all the little squabbles are null and void, right???

Are you an Angry American yet????

‎ *** My Thought of the Day***

 

Kuuleme T. Stephens

 

 

 

 

In light of the recent events that are being circulated in the media and all over the web (The Zimmerman case). In order to stop violence in the Black Community, we must educate our Black Community. Most violence in our community is Black on Black crime.
If we want to be treated as equals, we must stop behaving like thugs and animals. Respect is earned, not given. If it walks like a duck……… How can we expect anyone to see the Black Community as anything respectable when we don’t care enough about ourselves to act responsible or civil???
Black folks, this starts at home. Educate your children, teach them that there is more to life than drug dealing, stealing, violence, and rapping. Take them to church and encourage them to stay in school, bring good morals into your homes, and set a good example for our children. Teach them self-respect and personal responsibility. Stop instilling failure from the get go.
Once this begins to happen, the rest will fall into place!!!!!!

 

P.S. Black folk, for those of you who wish to remain ignorant and act a fool…… You’re only making it harder for those who choose to do better for themselves and the Black Community as a whole. I refuse to be taken down with you, so SHAPE UP OR SHIP OUT!!!!!! Planes and boats leave the United States to Africa everyday!!! :) Call me self hating if you want to, but I will take being called a Race Trader, Aunt Jemima, Uncle TomGraham CrackerOreo, or any other derogatory term that people like to throw at me better than being called Ignorant, Uncivil, Uneducated, or a Thug………..

 

Are Our Standards too High???: The Problem with Politics Today

Kuuleme Stephens

Politics today have become such a mess that no one knows who to vote for or what to vote for anymore. We have to worry about our Politicians lying, cheating, having affairs, and numerous other bad qualities which we choose to demonize as we choose. Can anyone tell me when exactly, we as the human race became more powerful than GOD??? The Bible as I read it says that God is the judge of all men, so when did we become the judge and jury able to ruin other people lives and hold them to standards that we ourselves can’t even live up to??? Is there a hidden rule that I missed that states once you enter political office you must be perfect and have no human faults???

Our Country has a Religion, a Constitution, and laws that set basic guidelines for us to follow. These guidelines are set in order to make us the best people we can be in this life. Nowhere in either of those does it state one must be perfect in order to be a good person. Everyone makes mistakes, the only difference then is, if you learn from those mistakes and take steps to correct them. Now that being said, are there bad people in this world??? The answer to that would be yes. People who knowingly do “bad things” for personal gain can be considered bad people. Can people change??? The answer is yes, but some choose not to. It is not up to us to condemn them though; someone else already has that job.

So many people in Politics and other Public Figure positions have been hurt and destroyed while either running as Public Figure or being in a Public Figure position. It’s not just the people in the limelight that get hurt and destroyed either, their friends and family suffer along the way as well. Slander, the public broadcast of personal lives, moral misdeeds, and breakings of laws are not contained to one political party either. For example: Herman Cain, Bill Clinton, George Bush Jr., Barrack Obama, Martin Luther King Jr., Ted Kennedy, John F. Kennedy, Ron Paul to name a few. How are we ever to elect a candidate for any position of power if we hold them all to the standards of a perfect being or a God???? Do we ever truly know who a person is or what is in their heart??? In addition, how are we ever to find any of this out if we are judging them right off the bat without even looking at circumstances or the realities of the world surrounding the events???

I am going to use myself as an example on this one. I will probably lose friends (I have already lost a lot of family members and friends along the way already) so it does not really bother me. Most people know me as a proud mother, a Navy Veteran, and a very outspoken female Black Conservative. Most people would also say that I am a good person and many have asked me to run for a Political Office. That is only part of who I am. I have been many things during my lifetime. I will list some of them for you:

  1. 1.     Mother
  2. 2.     Cheerleading Coach
  3. 3.     Bible Bowl Youth Group Member/Church Member
  4. 4.     Girl Scout
  5. 5.     Ballet Teacher
  6. 6.     Counselor
  7. 7.     Navy Hospital Corpsman
  8. 8.     Ordained Minister
  9. 9.     Nursing Assistant
  10. 10.  Conservative and Tea Party Member

However, I have also been:

  1. 1.     Stripper
  2. 2.     Adult Movie Actress
  3. 3.     Hooters Girl
  4. 4.     Male Strip Club Manager
  5. 5.     Democrat
  6. 6.     A Single Unwed Mother
  7. 7.     A Welfare Recipient
  8. 8.     Homeless
  9. 9.     Bi-Polar
  10. 10.  A person known not to have problems with homosexuals (except on the right to marry in the Christian Church).

Will that change some people’s opinions of me, of course it will. Do I care??? Quite frankly, NO! EVERYONE has a skeleton in their closet whether they choose to admit it or not, and if they won’t they are not being honest with themselves. I have never claimed to be perfect. I have never purposely hidden who I am from people. I can very easily be found on the internet just like everyone else. I also would never run for political office because I know the people of this Country and Media would drag my family, my friends, and me though pure hell in doing so.

Where people in Public Standing go wrong is: They try to purposely hide their mistakes and place themselves in the position of being looked to as a God and not a human being. When these secrets are dug up (and they will be dug up by one side or the other), then they are scrutinized even more for being a liar on top of the misdeeds they tried to cover up in the first place.

Where the General Public goes wrong is: We place such high standards on public figures that it is very easy to tear them down. Most of the General Public can’t even meet the standards we hold our Public Figures to. So why does everyone get so upset and disappointed when a Public Figure falls??? Why do we all continue to act so surprised that these Public Figures are human just like us???

Therefore, in closing I will leave you with this:

Before we look to judge and condemn our Public Figures, we should first look to ourselves to see if our own house is clean. Before we look to ruin other people’s lives and the lives of their friends and families, we should check to see if the error they made was an error made out of being human, or an intentionally “bad” error that they purposely made out of truly being a truly “evil” person with the worst of intentions. When we as a Country are able to define the difference between the two, then and only then will we be able to elect a President and all other Political Figures suitable to run this Country the way it should be………

POLITICAL CHEERLEADER or OVER ZEALOUS CULT MEMBER: Followers of Ron Paul

Kuuleme Stephens

 

 

Everyday when I look at the postings on my Facebook page there are postings on the Congressman and Presidential Candidate Ron Paul. Even when I’m driving down the road, I see the red, white, and blue stenciled signs that promote his campaign. I myself don’t really care for the man, but I do know that some people do. Now, I know the upcoming election is a big one, and I also know it is going to be very heated but does this give anyone the right to go plum crazy though??

I know people are going to want to express their own political opinions on the candidate that they like the best. They will also try to sway others opinions by posting links to other various forms of information that they think will catch your eye. People will often get into heated discussions over one candidate or another. This happens more frequently when you have two or more people with preferences of different candidates. My question to you is when is it that a person goes too far with their support of a particular candidate???

I have had the honor of running into many supporters of Ron Paul on my Facebook page. Some are a pleasure to hear from and converse with, while others made me want to reach through my computer screen and choke the life out of them!!! Freedom of speech is a wonderful thing but……….Freedom of speech only goes so far and even it has its boundaries. So, if you haven’t guessed the topic I will be speaking about today, the let me help you out!

Cult or not a Cult: Ron Paul’s Fanatical Supporters ( Lol)

     When dealing with Ron Paul “supporters”, the conversations always start out on a good level. You have a common bond being Conservative and an equal dislike of our current President. I call this the RP Cheerleader phase. About 5 posts into the conversation the links from Ron Paul’s website, YouTube, and other various places start to pop up.  Some people have caught on to this tactic and ignore the links, other people have not. This is where the whole mood of the conversation makes a turn for the worse and then the RP Cheerleader turns into what I like to call the Over Zealous Cult Member. This is when the non-Ron Paul groupie makes the mistake of asking a question, defending another candidate, or challenging the Ron Paul links that have been posted to the thread and  in doing so, the non-Ron Paul person offends the Ron Paul “supporter. The RP Cheerleader then switches to attack mode and then the next  100 or so posts consist of more links, and arguing back and forth. Give me a break , don’t these people have lives???

I have actually entertained a few of the conversations of fanatical Ron Paul “supporters”. Not only is their support for Ron Paul a little over the top, they break under pressure when challenged with facts. The best way I know to describe them is that they are like Liberals defending Obama, very narrow-minded, hostile,  and a liability to our country and the next election. The way that the Ron Paul “supporters”  try to push Ron Paul on other people, make them seem more cult-like because they won’t stop until they have been blocked or deleted.  I have been told that I am not a defender of the Constitution, that I am not fulfilling my oath, that I am un-American, and that I don’t love my country among numerous other things, all because I do not support Ron Paul. I have been sent harassing emails to my inbox by people’s friends and even their spouses because I put a block on their buddy. Who does this kind of stuff, I mean really???

     So when does a supporter become a fanatical cult member?

      In my opinion it starts happening the minute they start getting hostile towards you or other people just because you said something or posted something about their candidate that they didn’t like. When the name calling starts, they become offensive,  and they keep blowing up your page with various links, it’s gone too far. When they have friends or family inbox you messages (because they are blocked from your page) to scream and holler about their blocked friend and Ron Paul, they are getting way overboard. When they have to create another Facebook account just so they can return to your page, then they are just plain crazy.  When they start challenging your Patriotism and love for the Constitution, it’s passed to far and they need to be dealt with. Unfortunately, the cult-like behavior of  some Ron Paul supporters drive people away from his campaign.I know it does for me! The hostility, one-way views, name calling, ignoring facts that do not reflect in a good way about Ron Paul. Their better than thou attitudes remind a lot of people of the Democrat Party and their sleazy and rude tactics.

For you Ron Paul fanatics:

If you are on someone else’s page, please be respectful. Although you may think that Ron Paul is the only Presidential candidate out there, there are other candidates that others choose to support.

If you are bringing your opinion to the table through intelligent conversation without badgering, name calling, arrogance or being offensive, you will most likely not have a problem.

Do Not continue to harass the person who blocked you through a third-party through their inbox or on their page. Having someone else do your dirty work is very cowardly and disrespectful.

If you are one who gets blocked, please don’t resort to being childish. Having someone else write the person who blocked you and  making a new profile under another name just to get back on the page you were blocked from is just plain immature.

My advice for those dealing with Ron Paul fanatics:

Do Not let them get out of control on your page!

Give the person a warning, don’t just dump them without saying anything, and don’t be afraid to block people if the unwanted behavior persists.

Make rules for your forum or platform, be it a Facebook account, MySpace, Twitter, or a personal website.

Last, make sure you let all your friends know  the law of the land is:  Your Rules for Your Page!!!

Rumors, Rumors, Rumors: I’m just sayiin’ !!!

Kuuleme T. Stephens

I find it amazing how our society today can have such double standards. What is alright by some standards is based on what political party you affiliate yourself with, and there is no denying that what is deemed ok in the Democrat Party is deemed racist, deviant, unacceptable, among other things in the case of the Republican Party.

Take Herman Cain, a Republican presidential hopeful, for instance. Liberals are quick to deem him guilty of sexual harassment, even though the women, who may or may not have made the claims, have yet to be identified or come forward to defend their alleged allegations.  The only thing that we really know for sure is that Politico put the article out. They have yet to even confirm that they have spoken to these women themselves. Herman Cain has repeatedly said he hasn’t sexually harassed anyone, yet the Liberal media and Democrat Party have deemed him guilty already. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty???? Isn’t this still the United States of America????

On the other side of the isle, an accusation has been covered up dealing with a sexual harassment case with the Rev. Jesse Jackson. Tommy Bennett had worked for the Rainbow Push Coalition from 2007-2009. He was outed as Homosexual by a female co-worker by the name of Caroline Wiggins who worked as a membership and volunteer coordinator for the Rainbow Push Coalition. She went to the Reverend and stated point-blank that she didn’t want to work with Mr. Bennett because he was a Homosexual. She would make”a limp wrist gesture” whenever Mr. Bennett was near and even was known to say anti-homosexual prayers out load when Bennett was in earshot.

Bennett stated in his complaint against Jackson that he was made to do “demeaning and demoralizing tasks” involving bringing women to Jackson’s room after work hours and cleaning the room after Jackson had sex with the women.At one point Bennett said Jackson had asked him to put a medicated cream on his inner thigh. When Tommy refused, Jackson responded by calling him a “little motherfucker”. These allegations were made over a year ago, but the Mainstream Liberal and Conservative media did not report anything on it. Now many Liberals will say “but Jesse Jackson isn’t running for president”. My response to that is, when you are consider yourself to be one of the “Leaders of the Black Community“, you damn well better be held to the same standards as a public official.

And then there’s the allegations against our “so-called president” as well. Back in 2010, there were reports of Barrack Obama and Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel as being members of an Elite Gay Men’s Club. Not only was it said they were members, they were more specific by saying “long-time members“. The Gay Bath House that goes by Mans Country, has a web page at: http://www.manscountrychicago.com/history/ourhistory.html . I had to look it up myself just to make sure it was a real Gay Men’s Bath House/Club and sure enough, it is. Sources close to Man’s Country said that the Secret Service had purged their file cabinets and their computers which were kept their private confidential records at the time, but Obama and Emanuel did indeed get issued club membership cards. It is said that Obama started frequenting Man’s Country during the 1990′s. Emanuel was said to have joined later on in 1998. It is even rumored that during Blagojevich’s trial U.S. District Court Judge James Zagel refused to let some 500 hours of recorded phone calls be played because they contained some “salty” information on Obama’s and Emanuel’s private lives.

Larry Sinclair is another person with tales of a Homosexual relationship with Obama. He revealed “that in 1999 he engaged in such oral sex activity and crack cocaine use with then-State senator Obama on two occasions, once in the back of a Chicago limousine operated by Five Star Limousine Service, and the other at a Chicago area motel, the Comfort Suites in Gurney, Illinois”. Shortly after he came out with his story, he was arrested on a “fugitive warrant issued by Delaware Attorney General Beau Biden, the son of Obama’s vice presidential running mate”. Coincidence????? I think not. More like clean-up.

Rev. Jeremiah Wright, Obama’s long-time pastor, isn’t so clean either according to some. He is said to be a match maker “for gay married black professional members of the church, including lawyers and businessmen, particularly those with children”. This little club was named “The Down Low Club“, DLC for short. It was given the name because if people were to hear one talking about the DLC, they would more than likely think that they were referring to the Democrat Leadership Counsel. Not that is some serious cover up going on there.

Now, back to the beginning of my post about double standards. The mainstream media and Liberal mouth pieces would have you believe that Herman Cain is guilty just because Politico put out their article. Well, the other persons I have mentioned above have also had articles written about their alleged misdeeds, so where is the outcry over their circumstances???? Where are all the media stories on their escapades??? Even when Bill Clinton lied about his infidelity, there wasn’t a big media outcry over him and his misdeeds. He was brought up on impeachment charges as well, but they seemed to see fit to let him finish out his term of office.

When talking about the bias in this 2012 political race and all the rumors, the Race card can pretty much be thrown out the window. It doesn’t matter that the Democrats have said that Herman Cain isn’t Black enough because he’s a true Patriot and Conservative, he still and will always be a Black-American. All the persons mention above in the scandals are Black, even Clinton was deemed “the first Black president” by the Democrat Party. So what are we left with in determining the double standard???? You guessed it!!!! Political Party Affiliation!!! If you are a Democrat you can do anything and get away with everything. Even the media will help in hiding facts about a Liberal and their misdeeds.

If you are a Conservative, put on your seat belts because you’re in for the ride of your life!!!!!

Food 4 Thought

Food 4 Thought

Kuuleme T. Stephens

 

 

 

There are so many ways that one can argue to save taxpayers dollars. I highly doubt our House and Senate have thought about this like I have though…….

Today, nearly 45 million people receive help from the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP, formerly called food stamps). 4,375,022 of the US population receives Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF aka Cash Benefits).

People also receive Subsidized Housing (aka Section Eight), where the government pays a portion or all of your monthly housing payments.

In order to get a job at most respectable work places, there are several things that one must accomplish beforehand.

1.) Have a G.E.D. or Diploma

2.) Present legal identification and social security card for tax purposes

3.) Pass a drug test

4.) Pass a criminal background check (not all work places do these but more are doing so everyday)

When and if you get the job you must:

1.) Show up to work every day on time

2.) Wear appropriate attire or uniform

3.) Stay clean and sober (some jobs do random testing and prescription medications are often included)

4.) Work a certain amount of time in order to earn vacation days

***These are just some examples of things needed in order to get and maintain a job, and if you have any brains at all, you can see where I am going with this!!!!!*****

What if we were to place the same stipulations on those who receive welfare? If we as descent working class persons have to drug test in order get a job and pay taxes into the welfare system, shouldn’t those receiving it be held to the same standard? I myself know that I am not happy paying taxes to support someone who is on a permanent vacation, partaking of drugs and alcohol (bought with the food stamps that I paid for with my hard-earned money because they traded them for cash for pennies on the dollar). I also don’t agree with my tax payers dollars going to support someone who has an extensive criminal record, persons who drop out of school, and persons who don’t even belong in this country and are here illegally. My reasoning for my thinking is that I had to pass all of these requirements in order to get the very job that is paying for their behinds to live for free.

Back in the 1930′s, when welfare was started, the people had a great need for government help because of the Great Depression era. Most during the Great Depression lost everything or close to it. The reasoning behind it was to give the people a little help so that they could quickly get back on their feet and become self-sufficient again. Somewhere between 1930 and the present, our society has seemed to have lost its way because welfare is now used as a way of life. It’s not just a minority problem either. This problem crosses all races, colors, and creeds.

In a perfect world (where I am Queen! Lol!), people would only be able to stay on welfare (subsidized housing, cash,and food stamps) for 3-6 months. That gives them plenty of time to look for and land a job and find suitable housing. In order to get any government assistance you must furnish proper and legal identification, be here in the United States legally, pass a drug test (and random testing), as well as pass a background check. If you have minor children, they would be required to stay in school in order to receive and continue to receive benefits. By doing this, we would no longer enable children growing up on the system and remaining on the system because they are too uneducated that they can’t get even the most menial jobs in the workforce.

For those who require longer government assistance (3-6 additional months), they should be required to take some type of technical trade course (we had to attend some sort of schooling to get our jobs!), this would better able them to enter or return to the work force. I would also add-on that you can only receive assistance for any of the 3 benefits once in a 5 year period unless something that can not before seen were to happen (such as injury, illness, death of a spouse, etc) I am so sick of my tax dollars going to people who get to sit at home all day and do nothing (watch tv, sleep, party, drink, drugs, etc…) because they are relying on the government to take care of them.We as tax payers do not get to do these things so why should we pay for others who are living off of our hard-earned money to do so????? I would revamp the Subsidized Housing Assistance as well. I would make it to where every month that you receive aid, the cost that the government pays for your housing will decrease and the money that you will pay will increase each month until you are paying the entire amount by yourself.If classes are needed to teach financial responsibility then that’s another thing that will keep them busy earning their keep.

If policies such as these were ever to be enacted, precious tax dollars would be saved. People that refuse to help themselves will be eliminated off of the government programs and forced to fend for themselves. Having a requirement for school aged children to stay in school will force parents to be more accountable if they wish to receive government benefits and at the same time, produce more young adults who are able to enter the workforce with the basic knowledge of what they need to know. Illegal persons would be unable to receive benefits of any kind, if they have taken proper steps to be here then the same rules would apply to them in getting government assistance. As far as people who have an extensive criminal record, I say good luck to you. I personally think that they should have it harder than anyone else and not receive a penny of government assistance because they’ve already had their fill in the court, prison, jail,and rehab system. They should have to prove themselves worthy by working harder to be respectable and productive members of society. The prison system needs to be revamped as well so these people work and learn a basic trade while they are incarcerated, but that’s another story for another time! Lol!!

What do you guys think???????

Slave Mentality vs. Entitlement Mentality: The Downfall of the Black American Community

Kuuleme T. Stephens

Slave Mentality vs. Entitlement Mentality

The Downfall of the Black American Community

 

I often hear people make the claim that Blacks (African Americans) were better off when they were slaves. I myself have been known to say such things when people piss me off and respond out of ignorance to a posting or article. My reason for making such an argument is if Black Americans are not going to stop living in the past and blaming other for their problems, we will never move forward as a people. To maintain a belief that you are owed something and entitled to things when you are doing nothing to help yourself is absurd. To stay ignorant as a lifestyle choice and have others (the government) take care of you and tell you what to do is exactly what the slaves did, and some continued to do even after they were freed. Now, none of us today are slaves. Chattel slavery was begun in America by the first Europeans. Importation of new slaves was outlawed in 1808, and Lincoln’s Emancipation Proclamation in 1865 declared the slaves in the Confederacy were free (a bit of a stretch because at the time he was not president of the states in which he outlawed slavery). However, person such as my Great Grandmother whose father and grandfather were slaves have a Slavery Mentality because they were raised by slaves and their opinions and beliefs were passed down as such. Today our Black American community suffers from a different “syndrome” and that is called the Entitlement Mentality, which to me has many attributes of the Slavery Mentality, but adds ignorance, laziness, and arrogance to the picture and is much more dangerous.

 

First, what is a Slave Mentality? Moreover, what is an Entitlement Mentality?

 

A slave mentality is when a person (definition is not bound by race):

Is one of feeling inferior or of feeling lost without hope, a feeling that we do not have the power to significantly alter our own circumstances. Another sad symptom of having a slave mentality is believing that White people are superior, have all the answers, and are empowered by GOD.

 

Or

 

A person conditioned to quietly, and without objection, accept harmful circumstances for themselves as the natural order of things. They’re also conditioned to accept their master’s view and beliefs, about themselves, and strive to get others, within their group, to accept the master’s view.

An Entitlement Mentality is (also not bound by race):

A state of mind in which the prevailing mentality of a society is that of entitlement to receive from the government or state what is apparently due to them or owed. This mentality may be held by gainfully employed workers who really do deserve more money/higher salaries etc or the unemployed who feel that it is the state’s responsibility to put bread in their bellies or beer in their empty mugs. In essence, this social disease is born/spawned from an unwillingness to accept personal responsibility for yourself as an individual in all aspects of your life.

 

In today’s society, we as Black Americans have so many more opportunities open to us. We are able to get an education, we are able to get good jobs, and we are able to live freely doing what we want to do in life if you’re willing to do what needs to be done to get there. To say there is racism today isn’t really a topic that I myself like to focus on because I’ve only felt it from my fellow Black Americans. I have never been called a nigger from a white person yet I have been called an Uncle Tom because of my political views, my way of speaking (because I don’t speak Ebonics and went to College), and a Race Trader because I am married to a Caucasian man and have a Mulatto child. Now I ask you, who are the racists?????

The deterioration of the Black American family is staggering. If you ask a young Black American what they want to be when they grow up, most will say they want to be a rapper/singer, football player, basketball player, or baseball player, etc and that is if they can tell you what they would like to be at all. No one tells them that only 0.03% make it to pro basketball, 0.08% make it pro football, and 0.45 make it pro baseball. We have a 40% dropout rate, for every 100,000 Black men in the U.S., 4,777 are in prison or jail, for every 100,000 Black American women, there are 743 in jail or prison, and 72% of Black American women, and teens are unwed mothers.

These problems are not the “white man’s” fault; this is our problem as a Black community. The more we teach our children that they are not good enough (because they are black), that they have the odds stacked against them (because they are black), that no one likes them (because they are black), that every problem can be solved by crying racism (because they are black), and that everyone owes them something (because they are black), the further down we go in this world as a community and as a people. Common sense can’t be taught, but family values, a love for God, getting an education, abstinence, and a zero tolerance for drugs can. This type of education begins in the home and nowhere else. It’s not up to the teachers, the church, or even the government’s responsibility to make sure our children are able to be functioning members of society, they are there to help reinforce the things that you should be teaching in the home.

The Black community needs better role models in order for a reconstruction of our community to take place. Our children look up to rappers, porn stars, actors, ball players, and even drug dealers and gangsters. They are bombarded with filth and demoralizing images everyday on TV and radio. They are taught that it is ok for them to disrespect their elders, have sex at 13, drop out of school, and have a drug habit (marijuana and prescription drugs included), that females are whores, and that it is cool to be in a gang and go to prison. Our Black community is killing its own by selling drugs such as crack, cocaine, acid, ecstasy, heroine, mushrooms, crystal meth, prescription medications (Vicodin, Percocet, Codeine, etc…), and marijuana.

The Black community needs to step up to the plate here. Quit being lazy and expecting everything to be handed to you. Quit throwing up race as a reason for you not getting what you want. Chances are you weren’t qualified for the position, have no education, or just plain didn’t apply yourself as you should have. People only use race to keep everyone divided and full of hate. Even our own supposed self-professed “Black leaders” are guilty of this (Al Sharpton Jesse Jackson etc…). Start educating you children, stop passing down ignorance and hate for self and others.

People are always talking about the “n” word and how demeaning it is, yet Black Americans use it as a term of endearment when it comes to hanging with their friends. Especially when we say it’s racist for white folks to use it but we as Blacks can. This is a setback all in itself. The word itself means ignorant, and any one from any race can be considered ignorant. Somewhat ironic that Black Americans call each other ignorant as an expression of friendship. How can we as a race expect to be treated any better if we ourselves are calling ourselves ignorant every other second??????

Point being, nobody is responsible for the downfall of the Black American community and family except our selves. The Slavery Mentality has been long gone and the Entitlement Mentality is harming us as Black Americans. Quit blaming others for your own mess and clean up you own homes. This problem is on our doorstep, not anyone else’s. If you don’t want to be called a nigger, and yes I said it, then quit calling yourselves that (whether it be with an “A” or an “ER”). Get off your ignorant ass’s and do something to change you situation. Create a better Black community for our children and give them better role models to look up too. Don’t define everything by race either, that only adds to the hate of one’s self and others. Encourage them to stay in school, be drug free, and abstinent. Help them to become functioning members of society.

Or do you still think you are entitled to something…………….

                                                                                                      Kuuleme T. Stephens

                                                                                                               2011

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